We've all been there- so stressed over getting this child to perform, be successful, get her/his work done, take care of stuff, that we lose sight of or don't have time for enjoying the uniqueness of the child. There's so much pressure to be the perfect parent and do your best so that when we have a child who is struggling, we take it personally and feel we could do so much more. Sometimes though it comes down to prioritizing and deciding what are the lessons we want that child to learn? What is the most important thing in life? Is it straight A's, honor roll, being a star, belonging to the most extracurriculars- or is learning how to like yourself, being your own person, being comfortable with who you are? I know I am guilty of losing that perspective myself at times. I am attaching a link from a mom who has a daughter that works with a colleague of mine. She puts this in such a funny, but clear way. Thanks to her for the great message!!!
http://www.facebook.com/?sk=messages&tid=1308547726170#!/notes/lorraine-allen-rose/how-is-annie-doing-in-school/335971533729
Struggling Learners - Parents' Group- meeting March 15 at 6:30. Topic is Sensory Strategies You Can Use at Home.
How Is Annie Doing in School?
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